Embrace Being Single & Enjoy Dating Again

16 Mar

So I’ve reached the point in my single life of “DatInG” ARRRRRRHHHH! Just the thought of it scares me to death! However, it’s a part of life and I’ve come to the reality that it’s not as bad as I think. Have you ever ended a serious relationship with someone and it drained you dry to the point of no revival…yea me neither. Well when you reach that point “DatInG” becomes a must do task. I’ve generated some helpful steps that will help you through the datingĀ  process after a dreadful and draining breakup.

These ten steps will help any chick or guy through the pitfalls of dating….as a psychology student I’ve tested every step to ensure its mentally and physically safe lol!

(1.) Make a list of likes and dislikes in a partner *hint: this will prevent you from hooking up with the same fools you’ve been dating*

(2.) Decide what you want in your partner from day one of dating (casual sex, casual dates, one nighter, relationship) *if you know

what you want, let your date know and this will prevent future disappointment or harassment*

(3.) Get the ex boo out your brain and think single, flirty, and sexy! *this prevents those dreadful dry convos about your ex that no

one wants to hear…build a bridge and get over it…move on and shut up about your ex PLEASE!*

(4.) Get out and about and explore new scenes… go somewhere you normally don’t go like an art show, indie film showing, poetry

night…get my flow.

(5.) Get a grip on reality and get off of Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, Skype..etc. *you are not going to find a man/woman on the

internet…if you do he/she is probably not compatible with you…trust me!!*

Here comes the fun part…..

(6.) Be on point…head game tight…clothes on point…feet..shoes…get fresh to death! A man as well as a woman loves style! *if you

look good with those clothes on….your date will definitely like to see you with those clothes off*

(7.) If you have survived a few dates…and ready to get a little closer (intimate) I suggest bringing out the kinky! If you are ready

to start having sex with your partner then definitely start the kinky early…and keep it interesting! *keep em wanting more*

(8.) Go out on more solo dates than group dates…double dating and group dating can get overcrowded and confusing…it’s hard

enough keeping up with what your date is doing let along your friend and her date arguing at dinner! *your date will enjoy your

company without your entourage joining*

(9.) Don’t spill your guts to soon…keep the puzzle pieces coming…if you tell too much you might scare them away…your date doesn’t

need to know every wild college story or how you got put out the club for starting a bar fight!

(10.) MOST IMPORTANT DATING RULE….. if you’re happy being single and not looking for anything serious…date to date! Don’t

break someone’s heart by stringing them along or using them as a rebound! Go on dates here and there and enjoy your single

self….embrace your single and enjoy. When you’re truly ready to fall head over heels…your heart will tell you! Another

reminder…especially for my ladies *DO NOT I repeat DO NOT walk around being bitter and hateful because you got dumped…

guess what…we all have but move on and look forward to your future…it will get better! Trust me!*

So….there it is! My ten dating tips! If you have any love questions or concerns feel free to email me lovebugs anytime

@ dominokisses.muah@gmail.com!




One Response to “Embrace Being Single & Enjoy Dating Again”

  1. Brian March 12, 2012 at 4:29 pm #

    I like the advice, especially the idea of going out and doing new things to meet people. In fact I am interested in going on the R. Kelly Love Letter Cruise in October this year, have you heard anything about it?

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